First time parenthood

Tonight I realized that many of our fears and concerns are not necessarily due to the fact that we will be adoptive parents but mostly just because we are first-time-parents. We are afraid that this child will grow up and not want us or need us. We are afraid that we will do something that will make his life less than perfect or that we will be less than great parents. I guess we will never truly be able to separate the issues that are adoption specific and those that are just general first-time-parent fears. I am sure that either way, our children will talk about how crazy we are just as we do our parents!