Saturday, December 15, 2007

Really Bad Day

I thought about titling this post worst day of our lives but that sounds kind of like I am challenging God to show me the worst. I am not, simply saying that today was really really bad. We got up at 3:30 am, got dressed, drove 4.5 hours to the airport. Waited 2 hours to board. Arrived in Chicago at 12pm, ate, checked email, checked in for our next flight and waited...3 hours. 15 minutes before our plane to Frankfurt takes off, Cortney and I call the families one last time to check in. My call goes okay, Cort's...not so well. We are told that his dad is in the hospital getting a heart cath!! Heart cath??? We talked to him at 12 and he was feeling under the weather but for an emergency heart cath we knew something was really wrong. Well, there was. He had a heart attack and was having triple bypass open-heart surgery within the next hour. Needless to say we missed our flight. We were sitting there in the floor crying not knowing what to do. We couldn't get home for 8 hours and we have a baby waiting for us in Ethiopia. AHHHH!!! All we could do was cry. I cried all over the airport, to every ticketing agent we could find. We didn't want to do anything that would take us away from cell service so we could get the updates. So for 9 hours...we sat in the terminal, waiting for something. Neither of us really knowing what. We just sat there and cried. Then after 12 hours of sitting at Chicago O'Hare airport we got the news that Cort's dad came through the surgery with the best possible outcome. He is still in ICU but the surgery went well. We are kind of in a stand still right now not knowing what to do. I guess we will start trying to make decisions tomorrow. Please pray that this all works out and that Cortney's dad is back to his chipper self quickly.

18 comments:

Jocelyn said...

I am so sorry, I will be praying for Cortney's dad. It sounds like the surgery went well. I just know that he will be doing even better tomorrow and you will be on a plane to your little boy. Keep us posted on how he is doing and on your plans. Hang in there, a lot of people are praying for you!

Our journey to Ethiopia said...

Lindsey I know that you do not know me, but I have been reading your blogs for about the last one to two months. My husband and I are in the process of adopting a little boy from Ethiopia and I have just really enjoy reading your blogs and they have been so encouraging to me. I just want to let you know that I will be praying for you and your husband during this time and also for Courtney's father. I know this must be a hard time for you and you husband!

jennifer said...

So sorry to hear about Cortney's dad. I will be praying for you guys.

mama becca said...

You don't know us, but we've been following your blog as we are also adopting... I'm so, so sorry for this hardship in your path... know that we will be praying for you- for your decisions, and for God's perfect and endless love to support you and guide you! You have loads of support from people all over the planet... let that carry you!
God bless...
becca

Drew Carey Show said...

Oh my gosh. What a hideous turn of events -- obviously on so many levels. We are praying for your dad and for you guys that you will have clarity on how to proceed with these two important fellas in your life who you love so much. Don't forget to take care of yourselves too, so you stay healthy during this stressful time.

Shawn and Jami said...

I have been following your blog for quite some time now and have rejoiced from afar in God's blessing of Ian. We are also adopting and can only imagine the decisions that you are faced with right now because of the medical needs of Cortney's father. Please know that we will be praying for comfort and peace for your family...believing that God is good.

Renee said...

Oh Lindsey...I'm speechless and so sad for so many different reasons. First off I hope and pray that Cortney's dad is recovering well from his surgery- that's so scary. My sweet friend I know this must be so hard and just emotionally gut wrenching for you- hang in there. I'll be thinking of you constantly.
Love XOXO,
Renee

Quinn Girls said...

Lindsey, I am so sorry to hear about your terrible day. I am glad to hear Coutney's dad pulled through the surgery and is doing well. My prayers and thoughts are with you all. Know that Ian is in wonderful hands with the Glandney staff until you get there. Be sure to rest up and regain your strength so you are at your best for the most special day in your lives

Amy B. said...

Lindsey and Cortney...I don't even know where to begin. I am so sorry about Cortney's dad. I hope in the next hours he is stable and resting well. I also hope that the news will be good enough for you to continue on to Ian. I can not even imagine how difficult this must be on the two of you. I will be thinking and praying for you all night.
Amy

Shelia Earl Photography said...

I don't know what to say -- but wanted you to know that we are praying for Courtney's dad and your families, and most especially the two of you as you have to "wait" once again. I pray that Courtney's dad will be doing so well that you will have peace about going to get Ian. At least you know that he is in good hands and with people who love him until you can get to him. We will continue to pray for all of you. Shelia (Amy's mom)

Robin said...

Just wanted to let you know we are praying for you guys, and for Cortney's dad. Wow..you guys have a lot on your plate, but remember everything happens for a reason and God will work it out for his good. I'm so glad he made it through surgery OK, but I know you guys are really struggling not knowing if you should go or stay. Ask yourself: what would Cortney's dad want you to do.....

Love to you both,
Robin

LLA-DNA-RDA-JZA said...

As some of the others, you do not know us. It is not only your friends and family that are thinking of you but many others as well. We wish you peace and confidence in a decision in which there is truly no "right one." Whether sooner or later, we look forward to hearing of your journey to your son.

A Team said...

I just checked into your blog and I am blown away.... I am so sorry.
I will pray for your Father in Law... and you for guys as well. Thank you for the updates so we know how to pray!

Nicholas said...

I can't imagine what you are going through, what a horrible turn of events at the worst possible time.
Praying for your father in law and you guys - don't forget to keep up your strength.

Beau Fournet said...

Praying for your Dad...my Dad recently had the same surgery and it was hard, but he is doing so well now. And praying for your meeting Ian....prayers all around. Sorry that this is soooo tough!

Anonymous said...

Oh boy - hang in there guys. I'm so encouraged to hear that Cortney's dad made it through the surgery ok, but I will continue to pray that he makes a very speedy recovery. I'm sure seeing that adorable baby boy in your arms will bring him lots of holiday cheer. Take care of yourselves and know that you have an EXTRAORDINARY community of people that you've never met thinking of you every step of the way!

Robyn said...

I am so sorry to hear this. I will be praying!!

Robyn

nell ann said...

We're praying for you!